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If you are familiar with the story of creation then you will understand that God operates with principles. After creating man he gave an instruction "be fruitful and multiply". We all know it is not possible to multiply without a partner (Adam had Eve as a partner).
The number one item in God's agenda is PRINCIPLE. What this means is that in all of God's activities, He applies principles and embed this same principles in nature for man to follow.
These principles are not subject to marriage alone. let's take for instance you want to drive your car, there are certain you are expected to do before the can move, like fueling, checking the oil level etc. without these things in place your car wont start. that is just how important principles are.
let's look at 5 principles you should follow if you must marry or be married early
Marriage is an institution,it is a life time bound, it has no half time or break. It requires commitement, understanding, tolerance. "it's a no return mission". You don''t want to jump into it cause you cant jump out just like that (atleast if you are in a country where morality is important). Can you recall how you started reading, from simple rhymes and spellings to pronounciation of simple words. That is exactly how you get married.
Every female child is a wife in the making, a potential mother. once you realise this, then the rest is simple. Watch your mum closely, learn to cook, wash, clean, respect. watch even her mistakes and learn from her. try to do things without being told. You can useyour dad for this experiment, everything a wife can do for a husband, do it to your dad (please do not go to bed with him).
Some girls are so lazy, you wake late in the morning, somebody has to shout before you get up to clean the house. When you ask them how they will cope in their husband's house, they tell you "i will learn" or "my husband will understand". this is suppose to be a training stage, If you can't learn now it will be too late in your husband's house.
help mum build her home, give suggestions on how she can make dad happy, surprise dad, handle hard times. Be a source of encouragement to her and by so doing, you are actually preparing for your future role, cause everything that will happen in your home will just seem to you like things you've dealt with before.
If at 25 years of age you are still running after some boys in the name of boyfriend/girlfriend you are making a big mistake. At that stage you should already be a wife material. this is not the proper time to date guys with "swag", six packs, some
haircut etc. at this stage you are ready for a husband not a boyfriend, a home not a club, a responsible guy not guys with swag.
Timing is a very essential tool for every woman cause you don't really have a lot of it.
4. Let People Know You are Ready
Every good buyer knows where to locate a good seller, you don't necessarily have to go about announcing to people you are ready for marriage. everybody knows, when people see you they make comments like "she's a good girl", "that's a wife material" why? because they see the stuffs you are made of, mothers will recommend you to their children, not any kind of guy approaches you, as a matter of fact, if any guy approaches you, the first thing you hear is "let's start a serious relationship" cause you have a standard and it is obvious, everybody knows you for good character, even people meeting you for the first time will give good comments.
just as bad odour cannot be hidden, good scent can't also be hidden too.
Once you have observed all these principles, the last thing you do is to tell your creator, the very one that set this principles that you are ready, and believe me he'll start parading responsible guys pass you to make a choice
I hope someone out there will experiment this principles. Please bear in mind that there is a big difference between a girl and a wife so if are trying this principles you should know that even your outward appearance speaks volumes about you.
Let's have more wives and few girls. God bless you
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